Hi there! Sam and Hannah here. We are honored by your viewing of our book, and we hope to share our life and our love with you and your sweet little one. We promise to be open and honest, and answer any questions you may have.
A traditional love story: We met in college, and while we had been great friends for a couple of years, we truly grew to love one another after a year of courting. Being totally broke, we learned how to appreciate family dinners, walks in the gardens, and long phone calls. We tied the knot halfway through senior year, surrounded by friends and family.
And then: The dreaded graduate school experience…We both survived, and welcomed our first son, Daniel, on the day we graduated. Slightly stressful, but so worth it.
The move: Samuel, Hannah, and baby Daniel trekked across the state to a new life, new job, and eventually two new little minions: George and David. George is our second bio baby, and David was brought into our family through adoption a couple years later. Sam currently works a remote engineering job and Hannah homeschools the boys!
The next play: We had each individually experienced a strong desire to adopt since before we married. We joyfully brought our youngest son home through adoption in 2023! As an adoptive family, we understand firsthand that families are created in a variety of beautiful ways. Our son's birth family is dear to our hearts; we now consider them as part of our family, and we talk about them often. As we look forward to growing our family again through adoption, we would want you to understand that our commitment is not only to our future child, but to their birth family. We are one big team, all dedicated to loving this child together.
Expectant mothers who choose to make an adoption plan may qualify for some level of financial assistance during their pregnancy. However, each person's situation and specific needs are different. Your adoption social worker can help you determine what level of assistance you qualify for and deserve. Many expectant mothers qualify for financial assistance to cover basic pregnancy and living expenses, including but not limited to - transportation reimbursement, utility assistance for phone, water, and electricity/gas, maternity clothing and supplements, etc.
It won't cost you anything. If you choose to place your baby for adoption, all of your medical and legal fees will be covered and you may be eligible for financial assistance with other pregnancy-related expenses.
Yes. Even if you don’t know the identity of the birth father, you can still choose to make an adoption plan. However, every adoption situation is different. The adoption social worker you’re assigned to will get to know you and your story first, and then guide you through the process accordingly.
You can make an adoption plan at any point in your pregnancy, even after the baby has been born. But, it's important to start the process as early in your pregnancy as possible. Connecting with those resources will allow you to gain access to important medical services, including prenatal care, to help ensure a healthy pregnancy.
One aspect of your adoption plan is the "Hospital Plan" an outline of how you'd like your hospital stay and delivery to go. You can craft this on your own or with the help of your adoption social worker. But everything is up to you. You’ll be able to choose who comes to the hospital with you, who is in the room with you during delivery, and how much time you’d like to spend with the baby before signing the final papers.
As part of your adoption plan, you'll determine whether or not you’d like to have an open or closed adoption or something in between. Open adoptions may include phone calls, messaging (via social media, email, or text), and/or periodic visits each year. Closed adoptions may include no contact at all or annual updates provided to the birth parent(s) by the adoptive family. Each post-adoption relationship is different and can vary based on what an expectant mother chooses in her adoption plan.